Who Will Care for My Kids if Something Happens to Me?

Dan McKenzie • April 15, 2026

As a parent in the Denver metro area, you likely spend your days juggling work, school schedules, and soccer practice. You do everything to keep your family safe. But have you ever stopped to ask yourself, "What happens to my kids if I die?" While it is a heavy question to think about, having a clear answer is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children. Without a legal plan in place, the future of your family could be left up to a judge who doesn't know your values or your wishes.

The Risk of Family Disputes

Most of the time, family members will step in immediately to care for children. However, if your relatives don't agree on who should take over, things can get messy very quickly. A simple disagreement can turn into a court battle. While the adults argue, Child Protective Services might even get involved to monitor the situation. This adds unnecessary stress to your children during an already heartbreaking time. By documenting your choice, you prevent these "blown up" situations and ensure everyone knows exactly who you trust most.

Managing the Daily Routine

Beyond just who they live with, there are daily tasks that need a legal "green light." Who is allowed to pick your child up from daycare? Who can take them to the doctor or sign school permission slips? In Colorado, there are specific forms you can use for short-term care that don't require a judge's approval. But for long-term situations, a court usually has to sign off. They don't just "send kids to your sister" because she's family. You need a plan that meets specific Colorado legal requirements to make sure the transition is as smooth as possible for your kids.

Protecting Your Children’s Future in Denver

If you are living in Centennial or anywhere in the Denver metro area, you want to make sure your estate plan is up to date and legally sound and compliant with Colorado law. Creating a plan isn't just about money; it’s about making sure your kids are raised by the people you choose. If your current plan is more than five years old, or if you haven't started one yet, now is the time to secure their future. You shouldn't have to wonder "what happens to my kids if I die" when you can have the peace of mind that comes with a professional legal strategy.

Let’s Protect Your Family Together

We help families like yours navigate these big decisions with ease and confidence. If you’re ready to put a plan in place that protects your children, we are here to help.


Please contact The McKenzie Law Firm today to schedule a consultation. You can also reach our office in Centennial at 720-821-7604. We look forward to serving your family in the Denver metro area.


The McKenzie Law Firm, LLC practices law exclusively in Colorado. This post is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a qualified attorney regarding your specific situation.

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