How to Protect Your Children’s Inheritance in a Blended Family

Dan McKenzie • April 27, 2026

If you have remarried and have children from a previous marriage, you probably want to make sure everyone is taken care of. You love your spouse, but you also want to ensure your kids receive their fair share. This is a common concern for many successful couples in the Denver metro area. Balancing these needs can be tricky, especially when the relationship between step-parents and step-children isn't very close.

The Problem with Waiting

In many estate plans, the surviving spouse inherits everything first. However, if one spouse outlives the other by 15 or 20 years, the children from the first marriage may wait a long time for their inheritance. Life changes during those years. The surviving spouse might even get remarried, which could put your children’s intended inheritance at risk.

Consider an Immediate Gift

One way to keep the peace and ensure your children are protected is to give them a gift immediately upon your passing. Rather than making them wait for their step-parent to pass away, you can set aside specific assets or funds that go directly to them right away. This "early" inheritance can prevent resentment and provide your children with financial security while they are still young enough to use it for things like a first home or a business start-up.

Planning for Your Unique Family

Every family in Colorado is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all solution for blended families. Whether you spend your weekends hiking in the foothills or cheering on the Rockies, you want to know your legacy is secure. A clear plan helps avoid family arguments and ensures that both your spouse and your children feel valued and respected.

Start Your Plan Today

If your current plan is more than five years old, it might not reflect your current family goals. We help families across the Denver metro area navigate these complex choices with confidence. To learn more about how to protect your children’s inheritance in a blended family, contact The McKenzie Law Firm, LLC at 720-821-7604 to schedule a consultation.


The McKenzie Law Firm, LLC practices law exclusively in Colorado. This post is for general informational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Please consult a qualified attorney regarding your specific situation.

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