What is the most frequent cause of a difficult estate administration?

dan • March 16, 2022

If you have done any estate planning, your goal was probably to make the administration of your estate as easy as possible for your family. But while having a will or trust can be helpful, your estate might still be difficult to administer if your paper life and your actual life are out of sync with one another.


What is your "paper life"? It is the deeds, titles, and ownership documents for house, cars, and other assets. It's your marriage license or divorce decree. It's the contracts that you have entered. It's the loans you have taken or co-signed.


For example, if you want to treat someone like a spouse even though you are not married to him or her, you need to write that down. If you want to let someone live in a house even though he or she is not on the deed and doesn't have a rental agreement, you need to write that down. If you want to treat money that you gave to a kid as a loan (or want a loan to be forgiven), you need to write that down.


In this video, Denver estate planning attorney Dan McKenzie of The McKenzie Law Firm, LLC (303-578-2745, www.themckenziefirm.com) discusses how conflicting documents that are out of sync with how you actually are living can make administering your estate very difficult, even if you do have a well written will or trust.

What Next?

If you think it might be time to think through your estate plan, you can:
  1. Give us a call at 720-821-7604 to schedule a "Discovery Session" at which we can determine whether our firm would be a good fit for your needs. Or fill out our contact form to have us call you.
  2. Visit our estate planning page to learn more about how proactively thinking through your estate plan can protect you and your family, minimize hassle, lower the chance of family discord, and minimize or eliminate taxes.
  3. Get a copy of our estate planning checklist to see where you currently stand.
  4. Learn more by reading our blog or watching our videos.

By Dan McKenzie April 30, 2026
Thinking about a reverse mortgage in Denver? Learn why coordinating this loan with your estate plan is essential to protect your spouse and your heirs.
By Dan McKenzie April 29, 2026
Learn how the guardianship process works in Colorado and how adult children can legally make housing and medical decisions for parents.
By Dan McKenzie April 28, 2026
Worried about your retirement income? Learn when the federal government can garnish Social Security benefits for taxes, student loans, or child support.
By Dan McKenzie April 27, 2026
Discover how blended families in the Denver area can handle inheritance fairly. Learn why immediate gifts might be better than making children wait for years.
Gavel on a wooden block, with a person in a black robe writing on a document in the background.
By Dan McKenzie April 27, 2026
Think estate planning is only for parents? Think again. Learn why childless adults in Colorado need a solid estate plan — and what’s at stake if you don’t have one.
By Dan McKenzie April 26, 2026
Are your adult kids living at home? Learn why residency doesn't equal ownership and how to protect your Denver home with a solid estate plan.
By Dan McKenzie April 25, 2026
Learn why verbal promises aren't enough in Colorado probate court and how a formal estate plan from The McKenzie Law Firm can protect your Denver family.
By Dan McKenzie April 24, 2026
Lost on how to access a loved one's bank account or sell their house? Learn how the probate process works in Denver and how to get the legal authority you need.
By Dan McKenzie April 23, 2026
Dividing your estate equally among your children might seem fair, but it can lead to family conflict. Learn why equal isn't always fair for family caregivers in Denver.
By Dan McKenzie April 22, 2026
Inheriting a house is much harder than inheriting cash or stocks. Learn why real estate causes family conflict and how to protect your Denver home with a plan.